I have a friend. She has been “talking” with this guy for about two months. She always lets him call her. It’s the whole “let him initiate” thing we Christians dogmatically cling to as the 11th commanment. Thou shalt not call a boy. Seriously, it’s how I was reared. Anyway, she was wondering when she could call him.
So I present to you this conumdrum. If you were “talking” with a girl and she called you, would you see that as her pursuing and therefore call into question her spiritual foundations? Or would you think it was nice that she wanted to talk to you so she just picked up the phone and called?
As our resident married guys, Shawn, Jon L. and Papa are required to offer your seasoned opinions.
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